بسم الله و الحمد لله ، والصلاة والسلام على رسول الله ، وعلى آله وصحبه ومن تولاه وبعد
Some advice for the one who is being tested by way of one’s daughters
Question: I request from his eminence to present some advice for the one who is being tested by way of one’s daughters and the benefit in raising them and in dealing with them in a good manner.
[Response: It is necessary that those who provide for their daughters that they be good to them and raise them while observing good manners. The Prophet, the peace & blessings of Allah be upon him, said:
{Whoever is tested with something due to one’s daughters and remains good to them (during this trial) then he will have a cover that will protect him from the hellfire (on the Day of Judgment).}*
The Sunnah is to raise them while observing good manners, and to invite them to righteousness. As well as being gentle with them as there is glad tidings in being good to one’s daughters or sisters. And they should invite them to Allah by finding them righteous husbands who will excel in protecting them and enjoin them to fulfill the commands of Allah.
ash-Shaykh ‘Abdul-‘Azeez bin Baaz (rahimahullah)
Arabic Source: http://www.ibnbaz.org.sa/mat/1649
Translated by: Aboo ‘Imraan al-Mekseekee-may Allah guide him
Question: I request from his eminence to present some advice for the one who is being tested by way of one’s daughters and the benefit in raising them and in dealing with them in a good manner.
[Response: It is necessary that those who provide for their daughters that they be good to them and raise them while observing good manners. The Prophet, the peace & blessings of Allah be upon him, said:
{Whoever is tested with something due to one’s daughters and remains good to them (during this trial) then he will have a cover that will protect him from the hellfire (on the Day of Judgment).}*
The Sunnah is to raise them while observing good manners, and to invite them to righteousness. As well as being gentle with them as there is glad tidings in being good to one’s daughters or sisters. And they should invite them to Allah by finding them righteous husbands who will excel in protecting them and enjoin them to fulfill the commands of Allah.
ash-Shaykh ‘Abdul-‘Azeez bin Baaz (rahimahullah)
Arabic Source: http://www.ibnbaz.org.sa/mat/1649
Translated by: Aboo ‘Imraan al-Mekseekee-may Allah guide him
أرجو من فضيلتكم توجيه نصيحة لمن ابتلي بالبنات وفضل تربيتهن وحسن معاملتهن.
الواجب لمن رزق بالبنات أن يحسن إليهن ويحسن تربيتهن. وقد قال النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم: ((من ابتلي بشيء من هذه البنات فأحسن إليهن كن له حجاباً من النار))[1].
والسنة أن يحسن تربيتهن ويدعو لهن بالصلاح. ويرفق بهن وله البشرى في إحسانه للبنات أو الأخوات. ويدعوا الله لهن بالأزواج الصالحين، الذين يحسنون رعايتهن ويأتمرون بأمر الله فيهن.
[1] رواه الترمذي في (كتاب البر والصلة) باب ما جاء في النفقة على البنات والأخوات، بلفظ: ((من ابتلي بشيء من البنات فصبر عليهن كن له حجابا من النار)) وقال: حديث حسن، ورواه ابن ماجه في (كتاب الأدب) باب بر الولد والإحسان إلى البنات، بلفظ: ((من كان له ثلاث بنات فصبر عليهن وأطعمهن وسقاهن وكساهن من جدته كن له حجابا من النار يوم القيامة)).
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